Alex Milkie
Bellevue Family Law Attorney | Unflinching Advocate for Divorce, Probate, and Estate Planning
Some men spend their lives building something solid—family, investments, a future. But when divorce hits, even the most composed professionals can feel like it’s all starting to crumble.
That’s when you need someone with a steady hand.
Alex Milkie is a Bellevue family law attorney who brings sharp strategy, steady guidance, and deep experience to moments that feel uncertain. He helps clients across King County navigate the legal, financial, and emotional weight of divorce, probate, and estate planning with clarity and conviction.
Alex is driven by a simple belief: stay steady, stay honest, andmove forward with purpose. It’s a mindset handed down from his grandfather, a Depression-era survivor who taught him: “Stay positive. Life will throw you all sorts of obstacles, but if you can stay positive and keep moving forward, you will always overcome.”
Legal Experience That Gets Results
For over a decade, Alex has advised clients through some of the most challenging legal transitions of their lives. Whether managing a family separation, executing an estate, or safeguarding long-term financial goals, he brings a disciplined, strategic approach grounded in practical experience.
He has:
- Represented clients in high-responsibility divorce and parenting matters across King County
- Drafted and defended estate plans that stand up to real-world complexity
- Resolved emotionally charged probate cases with discretion and care
- Advised professionals, business owners, and trustees on long-range planning and risk management
- Built trust with clients by listening carefully and delivering what matters most
His reputation is built on clear thinking, steady execution, and a refusal to waste time—yours or the court’s.
A Smarter Approach to Divorce and Family Law
Divorce isn’t just emotional—it’s financial, structural, and deeply personal. Alex helps his clients protect what they’ve built and make strong, informed decisions about what comes next.
He works best with clients who are serious about long-term outcomes—who understand that real “wins” in family law aren’t about dramatic hearings, but about durable results.
“I think the most important thing is remaining calm and confident for my clients. This is often the most stressful period of these people’s lives.”
His approach includes:
- Understanding complex financial lives: shared business interests, investments, long-term planning
- Crafting parenting solutions that avoid years of future conflict
- Guiding clients with straight answers, clear steps, and strategic focus
- Helping clients see beyond revenge and short-term relief
When the future feels uncertain, Alex doesn’t overreact. He plans. And then he acts.
Estate Planning That Works When It Matters
Estate planning isn’t just about what you leave behind—it’s about what you control now. Alex helps clients create plans that actually work when they’re needed, not just when they look tidy in a binder.
He regularly advises on:
- Wills and trusts tailored to real family dynamics and blended relationships
- Powers of attorney that protect clients while they’re still living
- Avoiding co-decision-maker chaos and unexpected litigation
- Clarity that reduces family conflict, confusion, and cost
“Most people think they just need a will. What they really need is a power of attorney. That’s the document that keeps everything from spiraling when something unexpected happens.”
His clients may not consider themselves “wealthy,” but they have something worth protecting—and they don’t want the court making decisions for their family.
Washington Probate With Clarity and Control
When someone passes, families don’t need friction. They need clarity.
Alex supports executors and families through the probate process with a level-headed approach that protects both the estate and the relationships that surround it.
“Now, if it comes to it, we can go litigate for the vase—that’s fine. But I want you to know that there are other options here that you might not think of.”
He ensures clients know their options, understand their responsibilities, and avoid unnecessary drama—while still being fully prepared to advocate when the time comes.
Education and Credentials
- J.D., University of San Diego School of Law
- M.A., History & International Relations, University of Chicago
- B.A., History & Near Eastern Languages and Civilizations, University of Washington
- Member, Washington State Bar Association (since 2008)
- Member, California State Bar Association (since 2009)
Beyond the Office
Alex is a skier, a cook, and a lifelong reader who believes in the power of perseverance. He draws inspiration from The Count of Monte Cristo and strength from his family, whom he calls his greatest accomplishment.
He’s not in this for the spotlight. He’s in it to make things work.
A Bellevue Family Law Attorney You Can Count On
Whether you’re facing divorce, organizing your estate, or managing probate, Alex Milkie offers more than legal service. He offers strength, strategy, and direction—delivered with the steady hand you need when everything feels uncertain.